Wednesday, July 6, 2011

A Stick Figure's Life

Ah, I remember it like it was yesterday...

Building sand castles as a kid...
My 1st bicycle...

Skating at the park...


Dressing up for Halloween as The Unknown Comic...
 
Playing Wii Tennis...


Those monotonous school days...
Hang-gliding in my 20s...
 

The wild days!
My first job...
 My nervous breakdown...

My Eat, Pray, Love Days...



The day I got married...

The day I met my brother-in-law...

The day my brother-in-law scammed me out of money...
The day our son was born...
 What not to say to your wife...
Meet the whole family...

Working during the week...

Playing golf on Saturday's...


My artistic side...

Retirement = more golf...



Now that I sit back and think about it...



It went by quickly...
 





A Stick Figure's Life


Coming Soon


Tragically Hip

Comedy in today's world is tragically hip. While comedy and tragedy may seem diametrically opposed, they are capable of dramatically coming together in the most humorous ways. 


Freud's view of jokes (the verbal and interpersonal form of humor) occurred when the conscious self allowed for the expression of thoughts that were suppressed or taboo in society. In his perspective, the harsher superego allowed the ego to be humorous, whereas contradictorily the benevolent superego allowed for a softer, more comforting type of humor. The extremely harsh superego suppressed humor altogether. 

According to Freud, the mature coping superego had the capacity to adapt itself to the demands of reality, so while something might seem funny to the id (the uncoordinated instinctual aspect of self), the superego would play the role of the critical moralizer. In this respect, unless you find yourself in a social setting where it would be inappropriate to laugh, doing so, releasing emotional tension or energy, is thought of as the relief theory of laughter. This idea comes from Herbert Spencer's ideas of energy being conserved or bottled up, and then released. Just as a crock pot has a relief valve, so do humans.



Much of what I've read and watched under the category of humor or comedy, tragic or not, has been dreadfully unoriginal. Still, it's this commonality that seems to universally appeal to people. Here's a collection of comics that I thought would best describe my thoughts on the matter...

 

 






Monday, July 4, 2011

The Hope For Freedom

Holidays celebrating the Independence of any nation are BIG, loud, and sensational. 

However, with the country at war, high gas prices, and the ruin that was once an economy, hard truths give people a moment to pause and think about what it means to be American in this country today. 

When Americans claim to love America and then detest most of the people they meet on the street, you have to stop a moment and wonder. 

Will Rogers, a 20th century American legend, with his world-class rope trick, wisdom, and inspiring wit, took what was relevant at the time and whittled it down to a few clear sentences. He said, "I never met a person I didn't like." 

And while you could argue that the American of today is clearly different from the American of the 1920s and 30s, that perhaps Will would change his mind were he here with us today in a time when people pride themselves not on being hospitable, but rather savvy technological giants in a world of social networking, the same insecurities, dreams for our children, and our children's children still remain. 


On a day like the 4th of July, Freedom is the buzz word of the day, but life is all about digital literacy. Perhaps if we just revived a modern version of Will's observational wit, we'd be far better off in a world filled with ignorance, intolerance, and the eternal quest for faster processors in the hands of people who claim that they don't have a clue as to what they want out of life, but demand that they still want it immediately. 


While ignorance can't be helped, even among the educated, an observation Will like to describe as, "There's nothing as stupid as an educated man when you get him off the subject he was educated in,"  there's unity in liking your fellow man (e.g., person) - even in the fast-paced global world of today where you'll still get run over if you're not moving fast enough. 


There's wisdom when you look at the challenges of life and still find a way to live it peacefully. In a country where the prefix "pre" brings people and objects together before their anticipated release date (pre-release, pre-view, pre-party), pre-judging others before you get to know them takes the liberties this nation bestows upon its citizens and symbolically flushes them down the drain. 

While it could be argued that we're "free" to pre-judge, free to dislike, or free to differentiate based on someone's gender, religion, or ethnic background (not legally, of course, that would be discrimination), it seems to me like we're relinquishing our freedom to be by limiting the freedom of others. 
Voltaire said, "I detest what you write, but I would give my life to make it possible for you to continue to write."  
(Je déteste ce que vous écrivez, mais je donnerai ma vie pour que vous puissiez continuer à écrire)


Much like the spirit of the French Revolution lives on in the hearts and minds of the French, we Americans are still commemorating our own version of liberté (liberty), égalite (equality), fraternité (fraternity or union). No matter how you define freedom, no one defines it as being the recipient of persecution or hatred from your fellow human being. 

Today marks a milestone in the philosophy of freedom...

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Comedy: An Equal Opportunity Insult

"Laughter is found at the debasement of your fellow Man." 
Plato


It's said that clever observations and witty turns of phrase are not jokes. That a joke is a sudden, often ironic, insight that surprises you!


While "funny" is perceived differently for many people, there are those who believe that every joke must have a victim. The victim can be nearly anything from a political figure or a movie star to the comic delivering the joke (or smashing himself in the face with a whack-a-mirror mallet. When you tell a joke about something that people think only they have noticed, the humor lies in the realization that they're not alone in their experience. In this case, the victim of the joke is the "presumption" itself. 


Sometimes it's our own "ridiculousness" that we laugh at the hardest. 

Married Couple + Technical Support = Joke.

Most everyone loves their pets. So, why exclude them from your jokes? The next time you pick up Little Miss Fluffy or Chewie Chuck from the groomer's, take a moment to consider their experience there. From the charming hard, cold, metal table to the ever-so-pleasant collar that prohibits their movements to the backdoor invasion police, there are loads of counseling opportunities for your pets the moment they arrive back to the sanctuary of their homes. No wonder Mister hides under the bed with his stuffed bone whining like puppy every time he returns home from Oh la la, Royal Salon


Even walking down the beach with your loved one sharing a romantic moment has the potential to become a punchline in someone's joke. 

 

Of course, why would you want to make light of such a special occasion? I guess that's where timing comes in. That seductive, compelling quality that takes an inappropriate comment and extracts it from its present course. Timing might be vague, it might be a bit mysterious, but without it, like this post, it falls flat. 



The End of Facebook As We Know It

I was meditating on Google+ this morning 
and all I saw was a bunch of circles